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What if the anxiety you’ve been fighting your whole life isn’t something to be fixed, but something to be cherished? How do you honor your identity and non-binary experience while building unwavering support within a traditional family? And what does it really take to embrace solitude, set zero-tolerance relationship boundaries, and step unapologetically into your power? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with digital creator, performer, and beauty visionary Cyrus Veyssi for one of the most vibrant, candid, and deeply resonant conversations on the show. Cyrus opens up about growing up as a fearless, performative child, coming out at a young age, experiencing their first panic attack at 12, and the transformative mindset shift that allowed them to reframe anxiety from an enemy into a cherished companion. Together, Radhi and Cyrus explore the profound armor of unconditional parental love, the nuanced experience of gender fluidity and non-binary identity, and why comedy serves as the ultimate…

Do you feel like you’re always trying to survive life? Do the difficult moments seem to stay with you longer than the beautiful ones? What if having a good life isn’t about feeling happy all the time, but learning how to truly receive the good? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi explores what it really means to have a good life—not by denying pain, but by making sure pain isn’t the only thing we collect. She breaks down why our brains naturally hold onto negative experiences, how our attention shapes our inner world, and why joy often needs to be intentionally noticed and absorbed. From “whimsy maxxing” and reconnecting with your inner child to understanding what you’re truly giving your attention and devotion to, this episode invites you to look at what’s sitting at the center of your life. Radhi also shares simple practices for staying with joyful moments, cultivating gratitude, and creating more space for beauty, even when life feels difficult. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why we’re often…

Are you exhausted from performing the version of yourself the world expects? Do you keep pushing through feelings instead of actually letting yourself have them? What would it feel like to stop proving yourself and just be? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Jessica Winterstern, creator of The Feminine Heart, for a deeply honest conversation about what it actually means to live from an open heart. From watching her mother’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis crack her wide open, to the daily devotion it takes to stay soft in a world that rewards hardness, Jessica brings wisdom, warmth, and radical permission to feel everything. This conversation covers shadow work, sacred rage, somatic healing, and why true femininity has nothing to do with being passive. It’s one of those episodes that stays with you long after it’s over. In this episode, you’ll learn: What the feminine heart actually is and why it has nothing to do with how you look. Why softening requires feeling the full spectrum, including…

What if the hardest parts of your past are actually showing you who you’re meant to become? How do you stop settling for relationships that don’t serve you? And what does it really take to build friendships rooted in honesty, trust, and zero jealousy? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with her best friend and actress Mandeep Dhillon for one of the most honest and deeply personal conversations on the show. Mandeep opens up about growing up without a father figure, the patterns she carried into relationships, years of self-sabotage, and the therapy and inner work that helped her completely change the trajectory of her life. Together, Radhi and Mandeep explore what it means to truly know yourself, set boundaries, stop trying to fix the people you love, and build friendships where you can be completely honest without judgment. They also talk about faith, learning to surrender control, dating with intention, and why becoming your best self can change the people and experiences you attract into…

Are you afraid of death because no one talks about it honestly? Do you avoid the conversation even when you know you shouldn’t? What if understanding death taught you how to live? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with hospice nurse Julie McFadden, known online as Hospice Nurse Julie, for one of the most comforting and eye-opening conversations you’ll ever hear about dying. With over a decade in the ICU and another decade in hospice care, Julie demystifies what actually happens to the body, debunks the myths that make death scarier than it needs to be, and shares the mystical phenomena she has witnessed firsthand at the bedside. This episode is not morbid. It is one of the most life-affirming conversations on the show. Because when you understand how the body is built to die, you stop fearing it and start appreciating everything you have right now. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why the body is biologically designed to die peacefully with very little intervention. What actually happens…

Do you spiral over one short reply? Does one comment stay with you for days? What if none of it was ever about you? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi breaks down why we take things personally, what’s actually happening in the body and mind when we do, and how to stop letting other people’s behavior define how we feel about ourselves. From the nervous system’s need to fill in uncertainty to the unhealed past pain that gets triggered by a single comment, this episode gets to the root of why we react the way we do. And more importantly, it gives you real tools to pause, ground yourself, and stop outsourcing your worth to other people’s moods. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why your brain fills silence and short replies with the most painful explanation. How projection works and why other people’s behavior is rarely about you. Why a small comment can trigger a massive reaction and what that’s really pointing to. How to use grounding and the pause to stop reacting from old wounds. Why emotional…

Are your biggest dreams buried so deep you’ve forgotten they’re there? Do you keep waiting for the right time, the right mood, the right version of yourself? What if the life you actually want is already on a list somewhere, just waiting for you to begin? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Ben Nemtin, co-founder of The Buried Life, to talk about what it took to crawl out of a debilitating depression and build one of the most inspiring movements in a generation. Ben went from being unable to leave his bedroom to playing basketball with President Obama, all by chasing a handwritten bucket list and helping strangers do the same. This conversation covers fear, regret, mortality, and what it actually takes to stop postponing your life. Ben is honest, funny, and deeply human, and this episode will make you want to write your list the moment it’s over. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why fear is actually a signal that something matters, not a reason to stop. The three barriers keeping most…

Do you wake up already overwhelmed before the day has even started? Is there a low hum of dread that hits the moment you open your eyes? What if you could change the first fifteen minutes and change everything? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi gets honest about morning anxiety, what it actually is, why it happens, and what she does every single morning to move through it. She walks you through her exact 15-minute morning ritual, the reminders she keeps pinned in her Notes app, and the daytime habits that keep the anxiety from creeping back. Because you don’t have to solve your whole life before 8am. You just have to get through the next few minutes. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why morning anxiety happens and what keeps the anxious loop running. How to use breathwork to anchor yourself before you even get out of bed. The thought reframing technique that stops catastrophizing in its tracks. The exact reminders Radhi returns to every morning when anxiety takes over. Why movement is one of the most…

Are you waiting for rock bottom to finally change? Do you keep slipping back into the same old patterns? What if transformation is about who you become, not what you do? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with mindset coach and former Harlem Globetrotter Derick Grant to explore what it actually takes to transform your life from the inside out. From the athlete’s mindset to healing your inner child, this conversation goes deep on why most people stay stuck and what it really takes to break free. Derick brings his RAC framework, his take on ego, nervous system awareness, and a seven-step inner child healing process to help you stop performing change and start embodying it. Because the version of you that has everything you want already exists. You just have to become them first. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why true transformation only happens when staying the same hurts more than changing. How the RAC pillars (Resilience, Accountability, Consistency) create lasting change. What your…

Do you feel depleted no matter how much you sleep or how clean you eat? Are you tired of chasing energy instead of actually having it? What if true radiance has nothing to do with your skincare routine? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi explores the ancient Ayurvedic concept of Ojas, the refined essence of deep nourishment that creates real vitality, glowing skin, and that magnetic, quietly confident energy you can feel in a person the moment they walk in the room. This isn’t about another morning routine or superfood. It’s about understanding why your body is depleted at the root level and how to slowly, consistently rebuild from the inside out. Because radiance isn’t something you apply. It’s something you cultivate. In this episode, you’ll learn: What Ojas is and why it’s the foundation of real beauty and vitality. Why skin and hair are the last to receive nourishment and what that means for how you take care of yourself. The four pillars to build Ojas: nutrition, rest, touch, and emotional…

Have you ever felt like the version of you the world sees isn’t the whole story? Do you wonder how to stay grounded when life keeps pulling you in every direction? What does it actually look like to evolve without losing yourself? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with model, entrepreneur, and mother of four Miranda Kerr for an honest conversation about what it takes to build a life rooted in something real. From growing up barefoot on a farm in rural Australia to becoming the first Australian Victoria’s Secret Angel, Miranda has spent her life learning that true beauty has nothing to do with what the industry tells you. This episode goes beyond the surface, into motherhood, meditation, marriage, and the daily rituals Miranda swears by. She opens up about founding KORA Organics after her mother’s health scare, why she’s been meditating for over two decades, and how asking her husband and kids how she can love them better has transformed her relationships. In this episode, you’ll learn:…

Do you feel lost even though life looks fine on the outside? Are you busy, achieving, moving, but somehow completely disconnected? What if the version of you showing up every day isn’t actually you? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi walks you through what it really means to lose touch with yourself and, more importantly, how to find your way back. Inspired by Jay Shetty’s Think Like a Monk, she shares a practical self-audit process that cuts through the noise and gets honest about what’s actually running your life. Because your calendar and your bank statement don’t lie. And sometimes the gap between what you say you value and how you actually spend your time is where all the disconnection lives. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to audit your time and money to reveal what you actually value. Why most of what we call our values are really just survival strategies from the past. How your environment quietly shapes what you normalize, celebrate, and become. Why major life changes shift your values…

What if ADHD is more than just being “distracted”? What if the struggles with focus, emotions, time, motivation, and even relationships are all connected in ways we rarely talk about? And what if understanding how your brain works could help you stop seeing yourself as broken—and start building systems that actually support you? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi Devlukia sits down with psychiatrist and ADHD specialist Dr. Sasha Hamdani for an honest and eye-opening conversation about what ADHD really looks like beyond the stereotypes. Dr. Sasha breaks down the science of ADHD in a simple and deeply relatable way—explaining why it’s not just an attention issue, but a regulation issue that can affect emotions, sleep, focus, energy, motivation, relationships, and self-worth. Together, they explore the realities of living with ADHD as an adult, the emotional impact of rejection sensitivity, the differences in how ADHD presents in women, and why so many people go undiagnosed for years. Radhi also shares…

What if the version of yourself you’ve been protecting isn’t actually who you are? Why is it so easy to lose ourselves in roles, expectations, and the need to be understood? And when was the last time you sat in complete stillness and truly listened to yourself? In this solo episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi explores what it really means to be your true self—and why so many of us spend our lives identifying with roles, expectations, and versions of ourselves that were never truly ours. Drawing inspiration from Vedic philosophy and the concept of the “atman,” she reflects on the difference between the temporary self and the deeper, unchanging part of us that exists beneath the noise. Through personal reflections and honest moments of questioning, Radhi opens up about the pressure to perform, the fear of uncovering uncomfortable truths about ourselves, and the challenge of sitting in stillness long enough to actually listen inward. She shares how attachment, ego, distraction, and constant stimulation can…

What if the way you care for yourself has become more complicated than it needs to be? How much of healing is really about adding more—and how much of it is about reconnecting to what’s already around you? And what if the answers you’re searching for have been growing in nature all along? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with herbalist and wellness expert Rachelle Robinett for a grounding and deeply nourishing conversation on herbalism, healing, and returning to your body’s natural wisdom. Rachelle shares how her journey from the fashion world to herbal medicine led her back to herself—and why herbalism isn’t just about plants, but about rebuilding your relationship with nature, intuition, and the rhythms of your own body. Together, they explore the tension between modern wellness culture and simplicity, the emotional roots of anxiety and burnout, and how presence, rest, and small daily rituals can become powerful forms of healing. From adaptogens and bitters to nervous system support…

Have you ever felt stuck between fear and possibility? Do you find yourself waiting for proof before you allow yourself to believe in something bigger? Or maybe… you’re tired of shrinking yourself just to feel safe? In this solo episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi explores the quiet power of belief—and how the stories we repeat to ourselves shape the way we move through life. Inspired by a simple quote, “belief is magnetic,” Radhi reflects on the difference between chosen belief and fear-based doubt, and why learning to trust yourself can completely transform the way you experience the unknown. Through personal stories and gentle reminders, Radhi shares how belief isn’t about pretending everything is perfect—it’s about choosing hope even before the evidence arrives. She opens up about navigating self-doubt, shifting limiting thoughts, and the small daily practices that help her reconnect to possibility, courage, and trust. In this episode, you’ll learn: How your beliefs shape your actions, confidence, and…

How much of your exhaustion is actually about sleep—and how much of it is everything you’re doing around it? What if the reason you’re not sleeping isn’t because your body is broken, but because your habits are? Are you trying to force rest… instead of creating the conditions for it? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with sleep expert Dr. Michael Breus for a deeply practical and eye-opening conversation on sleep, energy, and what’s actually keeping you up at night. Dr. Breus breaks down sleep in the simplest way—reminding us that it’s a natural biological function, not something we should have to “hack.” From understanding sleep apnea (especially how it shows up differently in women) to why melatonin is often misused, this conversation challenges everything you thought you knew about rest. They explore the role of stress, environment, and daily habits in shaping your sleep—and why it’s not just about how long you sleep, but how you prepare for it. In this episode, you’ll learn: What sleep…

Are you treating your health like it only affects you? Do you tell yourself you’ll deal with it later, once things slow down? What if neglecting your well-being is one of the most costly things you can do to the people you love? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi unpacks why taking care of your health isn’t a selfish act, it’s one of the most loving things you can do. From the science of co-regulation to the mind-body connection, this episode reframes self-care as a profound responsibility, not a luxury, and gives you a clear, practical framework to finally start prioritizing yourself without guilt. Rather than overwhelming you with an overhaul, Radhi explores how understanding your body, processing your emotions, and building five simple daily habits can transform not just your own energy, but the environment you create for everyone around you. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why your health choices ripple outward to the people you love. How co-regulation means your nervous system affects everyone…

How much of who you are is actually you—and how much is what you’ve been taught to be? What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t because you’re lost, but because you’re out of alignment? Who would you be if you stopped trying to do life the “right” way? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Human Design expert Jenna Zoe for a deeply eye-opening conversation on authenticity, energy, and self-trust. Jenna breaks down Human Design in the simplest terms—describing it as a “manual” for your energy—and explains how each of us is designed to move through the world differently. From understanding your aura and intuition to recognizing how conditioning pulls you away from your natural self, this conversation offers both clarity and permission. They explore the five energy types, how relationships shift when you honor your design, and why so many of us feel disconnected—not because something is wrong with us, but because we’ve been living against our nature. In this episode, you’ll learn: What Human…

Have you done all the work and still feel empty? Are you stuck in endless self-improvement with nothing to show for it? What if you’ve been asking the wrong question all along?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi breaks down the crucial difference between self-development and self-mastery, and why chasing growth without inner depth can leave you feeling perpetually broken. Drawing on ancient wisdom from the Bhagavad Gita, this episode shifts the conversation from “how do I improve myself?” to “who is the self I’m actually trying to improve?” Rather than giving you another checklist, Radhi explores how true fulfillment comes from transforming your relationship with yourself, not just your behavior. From ego awareness to emotional regulation to desire management, this episode gives you the inner framework to stop being controlled by your reactions, impulses, and need for validation. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why self-development alone can trap you in a cycle of feeling perpetually…

When the world tells you who you should be, how do you come home to your authentic self? Can you be both stressed and blessed at the same time, or must you choose one? How do we find room for joy and celebration while facing collective suffering and oppression? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Dr. Thema Bryant, a trauma recovery expert and 2023 President of the American Psychological Association (APA), for a deeply reflective conversation on identity, faith, and the process of "Homecoming." Dr. Bryant shares her personal journey growing up with ministers who practiced liberation theology, which is about the community and the collective, not just the individual and God. This led her to discover liberation psychology, focusing on context and systems to empower everyone. She also discusses how her childhood home was like her "first time working at like a crisis hotline" and how moving to Liberia, West Africa, gave her confidence from seeing people who looked like her in positions of…

Have you ever felt off—but couldn’t quite explain why? Are you craving balance, clarity, or deeper connection with your body? Or maybe… you're tired of chasing wellness fads and just want to feel at home in yourself again? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi shares the gentle, powerful wisdom of Ayurveda—an ancient approach to healing that helps us reconnect to the natural rhythms of our body, mind, and spirit. Rooted in presence and compassion, Ayurveda teaches us to slow down and truly listen. You’ll learn how the five elements and three doshas shape your physical and emotional patterns, and how everyday choices—from the meals you cook to the energy you carry—can guide you back to balance. Radhi opens up about the rituals that ground her, the foods that nourish her, and how this practice has helped her understand herself more deeply—beyond just symptoms or routines. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to reconnect with your body’s subtle signals What the doshas are—and how they impact your mood,…

Why do we want what we want? Is desire a sign of lack or alignment? What if the only thing blocking your abundance is your capacity to hold it? Can loss actually prepare you for more? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with entrepreneur and spiritual teacher David Ghiyam to unpack manifestation, wealth, relationships, and the spiritual laws that shape our reality. David shares how taking a vow of poverty at 19 shaped his understanding of money, and how subconscious beliefs kept him financially stuck for 15 years. He explains the concept of expanding your “vessel”: if you try to hold a million-dollar life with limited capacity, it will collapse. The work isn’t about chasing success, it’s about becoming someone who can sustain it. They discuss immigrant scarcity mindset, generational trauma around money, and why enjoying wealth is just as important as earning it. The conversation also dives into magnetic energy in relationships, transforming darkness into certainty, and why true prayer is…

Do your standards shrink the room? Have you ever been called too much, too intense, too selective, too particular? What if that's not a flaw, but proof of the work you've done on yourself? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi gets real about what it means to hold high standards — in dating, friendship, work, and with yourself. She breaks down the difference between ego-driven expectations and value-driven ones, and why knowing the difference changes everything. In this episode, you'll learn: - Why being "low maintenance" isn't the flex we think it is. - The difference between ego standards and value standards. - Three tests to check if your standards are rooted in values or image. - Why "you're too much" is about their capacity, not your worth. - How Oprah, Serena Williams, and Indra Nooyi refused to shrink and won. Your standards aren't the problem. Compromising them is. Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ…

In a world where we’re told to “wait until you’re ready,” what does that really mean for your body? Are we empowering women with information about fertility — or overwhelming them with fear? And how do you hold hope when the journey to pregnancy feels uncertain, unpredictable, or painfully slow? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with fertility specialist and author of The Lucky Egg, Dr. Lucky Sekhon, for an honest, empowering conversation about modern fertility, egg health, PCOS, endometriosis, IVF, and everything in between. Dr. Sekhon breaks down what’s actually happening in our bodies — from ovulation and insulin resistance to inflammation and the biological clock — in a way that feels informative, not intimidating. She explains why regular periods matter, why lifestyle is important (but not something to weaponize against yourself), and how science has dramatically improved IVF success rates over the years. Together, they explore the emotional toll of trying to conceive, the…

Are you waiting to feel certain before you make a move? Do you know something needs to change but not what? What if feeling lost isn't a flaw, but a signal? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi breaks down the real psychology behind feeling lost and why it's not about lacking ambition or motivation, but about unmet needs you might not even know you have. From the Self-Determination Theory to envisioning your future selves, this episode gives you a practical, honest framework to stop spinning and start moving. Rather than telling you to "follow your passion" or make a dramatic leap, Radhi explores how small experiments, values clarity, and the right questions can create more direction than any five-year plan ever could. Because sometimes the path forward isn't found by thinking harder, it's found by understanding yourself better. In this episode, you'll learn: Why feeling lost is often a sign of an unmet psychological need, not a life crisis. How to identify whether you're missing autonomy, growth, or…

Why does hair loss feel so sudden—and so personal? Is it stress, hormones, diet… or something deeper happening in the body? And why do so many “miracle” hair products never actually work? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi Devlukia is joined by board-certified dermatologist Dr. Noreen Galaria for a grounding, science-forward conversation about hair loss, scalp health, and what your body is really communicating through your hair. Dr. Galaria breaks down the hair growth cycle using a simple seasonal analogy, explaining why hair loss today often reflects stress from months ago—and why patience is essential when it comes to regrowth. Together, they unpack the two most common causes of hair loss in women: chronic stress and hormonal pattern hair loss, and why each requires a completely different approach. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why hair loss has a 3-month delay—and what that means for healing The difference between stress-related shedding and hormonal pattern hair loss How cortisol and chronic…

What if you’re not burnt out — just energetically cluttered? Why does anxiety build even when nothing “big” has happened? How much of your exhaustion comes from micro-betrayals of your own boundaries? What would change if you cleaned your energy the way you clean your body? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi introduces the concept of Spiritual Hygiene — the daily practices that prevent emotional, mental, and energetic buildup. She explains how we don’t usually fall apart from one major event, but from tiny, unreleased accumulations: unspoken irritation, doomscrolling, overgiving, comparison, and saying yes when we mean no. Radhi breaks down five forms of spiritual hygiene — integrity, attention, emotional, relational, environmental, and talk hygiene — and explores how anxiety is often the gap between who we say we are and how we’re actually living. She shares personal reflections on leaked energy, digital clutter, overstimulation, and the subtle ways we disconnect from ourselves in modern life. This…

What if your anxiety isn’t just in your mind, but in your body? Why do certain pains never fully go away? Can tiny movements actually release stored trauma? What if your body isn’t broken but just protective? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with somatic healing expert Liz Tenuto to explore how emotional stress and trauma live in the body, and how to safely release it. Liz explains that “soma” means body, and somatic healing focuses on small, intentional micro-movements that help regulate the nervous system. Unlike traditional workouts or even yoga, somatics is about restoring agency, reconnecting the mind and body so you feel safe inside yourself again. They discuss how unprocessed stress can show up as jaw tension, tight hips, gut issues, panic attacks, and chronic pain. Liz breaks down nervous system responses like fight, flight, freeze, and dissociation, and explains why shaking, or neurogenic tremors, can actually be the body completing a stress cycle. In this episode, you’ll learn:…

What if forgiveness isn’t about the person who hurt you, but about your own peace? Can anger be a disguise for deeper feelings like guilt or betrayal? Is it possible to forgive without ever speaking to someone again? How do you release trauma that keeps looping in your body and mind? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi explores forgiveness as a one-person process, a choice made for your own healing, not for anyone else. She explains why forgiveness must be voluntary and intentional, and how societal pressure can make it feel performative. Radhi also distinguishes between “big T” trauma, like abuse or loss, and “little t” daily grievances, sharing stories from survivors and her experiences in Rwanda after the 1994 genocide. She breaks down how anger can physically manifest and keep you tied to past pain. The episode walks you through the four stages of forgiveness: Hate, Hurt, Understanding, and Release — practical steps to untie the emotional knot and reclaim your peace. In this episode, you’ll…

Who are you when your mind is running on beliefs you never chose? Is your pain a life sentence — or a story waiting to be rewritten? What if the limits you feel aren’t real, but learned? And who might you become if you stopped fearing your own potential? In this mind-opening episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with transformational coach and author Jim Curtis for a deeply reflective conversation on identity, fear, and the unseen programming that shapes our lives more than we realize. Jim shares his personal journey from Wall Street trader to transformational coach — a path marked by physical pain, spiritual seeking, and the realization that true freedom begins within. With more than twenty-five years in wellness leadership, including executive roles at WebMD, Everyday Health, and The Institute for Integrative Nutrition, Jim blends neuroscience, hypnotherapy, and spirituality to help people reprogram subconscious patterns and create lasting change. His latest book, The Book of Possibility, is…

Have you ever noticed how your thoughts seem to jump ahead before the moment has caught up? Why can a simple task spiral into mental noise, while something random pulls you into deep focus for hours? How often do you tell yourself you’ll “get to it later,” only to feel surprised when time disappears again? What happens when you stop blaming yourself for that—and start paying attention to how your brain actually works? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi shares a grounded, personal conversation about living with ADHD and the systems that helped her move from constant overwhelm to more clarity, calm, and self-trust. She opens up about racing thoughts, time blindness, interrupting conversations, overstimulation, and the quiet shame that can come from feeling misunderstood—while offering practical, compassionate tools that support an ADHD nervous system. Rather than pushing discipline or productivity hacks that don’t stick, Radhi explores why external structure creates internal peace, why environment…

Why does it feel harder than ever to stay connected—to friends, partners, and even family? What’s the difference between healthy boundaries and emotional disconnection? Can you heal, grow, and still need other people? And what if needing support is actually a sign of strength—not failure? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with therapist, bestselling author, and boundaries expert Nedra Glover Tawwab for a powerful conversation about connection, dependency, and what it truly means to be in healthy relationships. Together, they explore why modern self-care culture can sometimes push us toward isolation, how hyper-independence shows up in everyday life, and why healing doesn’t happen alone. Nedra breaks down the dependency spectrum—from codependency to emotional avoidance—and explains how true interdependence allows us to grow without losing ourselves. From friendships and romantic relationships to attachment styles, expectations, and conflict, this episode is a grounded reminder that…

Do you ever question whether someone in your life is truly your friend—or just playing the part? Have you ever felt drained, confused, or quietly hurt by a friendship that looked good on the surface but didn’t feel right underneath? And what if not every “fake” friendship is about bad intentions—but about misaligned expectations, capacity, and unspoken contracts? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi opens up about the nuance of adult friendships—how to spot red flags, how to recognize when something feels transactional, and why closeness isn’t always symmetrical. From navigating one-sided energy and personal gain, to understanding emotional capacity and silent expectations, this conversation invites you to reflect on your friendships with honesty and compassion. Rather than jumping to “cut them off” culture, Radhi explores how communication, boundaries, and self-awareness can transform the way you relate to the people in your life. Because sometimes it’s not about labeling someone as fake—it’s about…

Why do so many women feel exhausted, dismissed, or confused about their health? Why are painful periods, chronic fatigue, and burnout so often labeled “normal”? And how did women’s hormones go so long without being properly studied? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with integrative medicine doctor and hormone expert Dr. Amy Shah for an honest, grounding conversation about women’s hormones, stress, and the gaps in modern healthcare. Together, they explore why so many women struggle to get real answers, how stress and cortisol quietly shape our health, and what it actually means to support hormones in a sustainable way. From period pain and hormone testing to gut health, nutrition, perimenopause, and burnout, this episode breaks down complex science into language that feels accessible, validating, and empowering. Dr. Shah shares why there is no single “magic fix” for hormone balance—and why listening to your body, supporting your nervous system, and nourishing your gut can make a…

Do you ever feel frustrated that your life isn’t moving the way you want it to? What if the problem isn’t a lack of motivation—but a misalignment between what you want and what you’re investing in? And what if the reason things haven’t changed yet has more to do with safety, identity, and belief than effort? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi opens up an honest, grounding conversation about why the life you want might still feel out of reach—and how your time, energy, beliefs, and nervous system are quietly shaping your reality. From the difference between fantasizing and truly investing, to the way identity, fear, and old patterns can hold you back, this episode is an invitation to look at your life with curiosity instead of judgment. Rather than pushing you to “try harder” or think more positively, Radhi explores how real change happens when your actions, beliefs, and sense of self begin to align—and why sometimes the thing blocking your growth isn’t laziness, but protection. In this episode,…

What does it really mean to belong—when your life has been shaped by many cultures, many homes, and many versions of yourself? How do you stay soft, feminine, and emotionally open in a world that constantly demands armor? And what if leaning fully into who you are is the most powerful thing you could ever do? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with singer, songwriter, and global soul Naïka for a deeply intimate conversation about identity, femininity, creativity, and self-trust. From growing up across continents to building a music career rooted in emotional honesty, Naïka opens up about what it truly takes to stay connected to yourself while navigating success, visibility, and personal evolution. Together, they explore what it means to feel “in between” cultures—and how that experience can become a superpower rather than a wound. Naïka shares how music became her safe place for expression, why femininity is something to be nurtured and reclaimed, and how confidence is built through…

Do you ever look in the mirror and immediately start criticizing your body? What if the problem isn’t your body—but the way you’ve learned to talk to it? And what if confidence has less to do with changing how you look, and more to do with changing how you think? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi opens up an honest, deeply personal conversation about body image, self-criticism, and the exhausting pressure to look a certain way. From childhood comments that linger for decades to the daily habit of body-shaming ourselves without even noticing, Radhi explores why so many women feel disconnected from their bodies—and how to begin healing that relationship with compassion instead of control. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why most body insecurities aren’t actually yours to begin with The difference between caring for your body and obsessing over it How constant self-criticism keeps you stuck in a cycle of dissatisfaction Why confidence is an energy, not a body type Practical mindset shifts to stop…

Have you ever wondered why you feel like a different version of yourself each week? What if your hormones weren’t a problem—but a powerful built-in guidance system? Could learning your body’s rhythm radically transform your energy, mood, and health? And what if everything you were taught to fear about your cycle… was simply wrong? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Alisa Vitti—hormone expert, cycle-syncing pioneer, and bestselling author of In The Flow. Together, they unearth the truth every woman deserves to know: your body isn’t working against you… it’s speaking to you. Alisa breaks down the powerful—and widely overlooked—Infradian Rhythm, the second biological clock that governs a woman’s metabolism, stress response, brain function, immune health, and emotional rhythm. She explains why so many women today struggle with hormonal issues and how simple, intuitive shifts in food, movement, sleep, and mindset can completely transform your cycle. From the science of each phase, to why…

Are you constantly feeling on edge, rushed, or overstimulated? What if your nervous system isn’t broken—but simply overloaded? And what if the way to calm your mind isn’t through willpower, but through signaling safety to your body? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi Devlukia guides listeners through how to reset the nervous system and move from fight-or-flight chaos to grounded calm. Drawing on science, Ayurveda, and daily rituals, Radhi shares simple, practical tools you can start using before 9 a.m. to regulate your body, reduce stress, and reclaim clarity. In this episode, you’ll learn: The three nervous system states and how they show up in your life How overstimulation impacts your mind, body, and energy Radhi’s “9 Before 9” routine to signal safety to your body Breathwork, humming, grounding, and oil massage practices for nervous system recovery How to recover faster from stress and navigate your day with calm and clarity This isn’t about living in permanent zen—it’s about moving through life…

Who are you when the thing that defined you is taken away? What happens when the life you planned no longer exists? How do you grieve a future that never happened? Can uncertainty become a place of growth instead of fear? In this deeply moving episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with cognitive scientist and author Dr. Maya Shankar for an honest conversation about identity, loss, and navigating life’s most unexpected transitions. Dr. Maya is the author of The Other Side of Change: Who We Become When Life Makes Other Plans, a book rooted in both science and lived experience. Maya shares the story of her childhood as a violin prodigy — accepted into Juilliard at nine and studying under Itzhak Perlman — until a career-ending injury at fifteen forced her to grieve not just the violin, but the version of herself she thought she would be. She opens up about how losing the violin meant losing her confidence, her identity, and the future she had built her entire life around. She also speaks candidly about…

What if starting something new isn’t the real challenge—but finishing it is? Why do so many projects, goals, and ideas die in the “messy middle”? What if completing a task isn’t just about willpower, but about shifting who you are at a deeper level? Are you a person who loves beginnings but avoids endings—or could you train yourself to finish with ease? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi Devlukia explores the gap between starting and finishing. Drawing from science, Ayurveda, and her own life, she explains why our brains crave novelty but resist follow-through—and how to move from the dopamine rush of beginnings to the serotonin stability of completion. Through honesty, practical tools, and gentle insight, Radhi guides listeners to shift identity, build momentum, and cultivate the discipline needed to see projects through—all while learning to celebrate small wins along the way. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why starting is easy but finishing is hard—and how your brain tricks you How to turn “too…

What if your skin isn’t the problem—but the messenger? Could breakouts, hormonal imbalances, and low confidence all trace back to the same root cause? And what if healing your skin wasn’t about adding more products—but understanding your body’s signals? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Clearstem co-founders Danielle Gronich and Kayleigh Christina for an eye-opening conversation on how to truly heal acne from the inside out. Danielle shares her years-long struggle with cystic acne and the frustration of endless prescriptions that never worked, while Kayleigh opens up about the emotional toll of post-birth-control breakouts that left her hiding from the world. Together, they unpack the deeper connection between hormones, gut health, and skin—and why “clean” doesn’t always mean “acne-safe.” They also dive into how stress, sleep, diet, and hidden ingredients in skincare (and even haircare) can trigger breakouts—and the small, sustainable changes that can make a big difference. In this…

What if the answers you're searching for have been inside you all along? How often do you hand your power to others without even noticing? And could your biggest struggles be invitations to finally see yourself clearly? In this deeply honest Q&A episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi opens up like never before, responding to your most personal questions—from love and friendship to purpose, comparison, creativity, and healing. Filled with humor, vulnerability, and striking self-awareness, Radhi shares the lessons she’s learned the hard way and the ones she’s still learning now. She talks about the lifelong pattern of believing others knew better than she did, how she finds calm and balance in her marriage, why friendship breakups can hurt more than romantic ones, and what it really looks like to find motivation as a creator and business owner. Radhi also gets real about comparison, jealousy, burnout, emotional eating, and self-sabotage—offering not polished perfection, but raw truth and lived experience. Through…

What actually changes when you understand the blueprint you were born with? Why do certain patterns repeat? Why do some seasons feel heavy, and others open? And can astrology really give clarity without taking away your free will? In this episode, Radhi sits down with The AstroTwins, Ophira and Tali Edut, for a grounded, eye-opening conversation about astrology as a tool for self-understanding, timing, purpose, and relationships. They break down the basics in a way that finally makes sense — from the Sun, Moon, and Rising signs to the North and South Nodes, planetary cycles, and what a birth chart actually shows about your inner world. The twins share how they discovered astrology in college, how being four minutes apart created subtle differences in their charts, and why no one has a “perfect” or “lucky” chart. They explain why astrology shouldn’t be treated as a rulebook, how to avoid becoming dependent on predictions, and why free will matters just as much as the stars. They also explore love and…

Could the pain you feel actually be wisdom waiting to unfold? How often do your expectations write a story your reality can’t live up to? Could disappointment be your teacher, not your enemy? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi Devlukia dives deep into the emotion we all try to avoid—disappointment. She explores why this feeling cuts so deep, describing it as the space between expectation and reality—a form of grief for what could have been. Drawing from her own reflections, Radhi reveals how disappointment often says more about our assumptions than the situation itself. Instead, Radhi invites listeners to find peace in the middle ground: To feel the emotion fully, take ownership of their response, and reframe disappointment as tuition—the price we pay for wisdom. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why disappointment may be a form of grief, not failure How perfectionism and shrinking dreams both come from fear Why effort doesn’t always equal outcome—and that’s okay How to reframe disappointment as…

What if the person you’ve become is still carrying the pain of who you once were? Could the patterns you can’t seem to break—disconnection, fear, self-doubt—be echoes of an unsafe childhood? And what if healing isn’t about fixing the past, but teaching your body that it’s safe now? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Anna Runkle, the creator of Crappy Childhood Fairy, for a powerful and compassionate conversation on how early emotional wounds shape the way we connect, love, and live as adults. Anna shares her journey of growing up in chaos, learning to recognize the lasting effects of trauma, and discovering the tools to calm her dysregulated nervous system. Together, Radhi and Anna explore the deep link between childhood pain and adult disconnection—and how learning to regulate your body can transform how you experience love, safety, and belonging. They unpack why traditional talk therapy doesn’t always reach the root of trauma, how emotional neglect can manifest as anxiety and…

What if Sunday wasn’t the end of your week—but the beginning of a better one? Could a few intentional hours on Sunday change how you feel all week long? What if rest and preparation—not productivity—were the secret to peace? How much lighter would your week feel if you stopped chasing and started preparing? And what if loving your week simply started with loving your Sunday? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi Devlukia shares her Sunday Reset routine—a gentle ritual that helps her move from dread to calm, from chaos to clarity. She breaks down how small acts of preparation for your mind, body, heart, and space can transform your mood and energy for the week ahead. Through warmth and reflection, Radhi invites listeners to reframe Sunday not as a day of anxiety, but as a launchpad for peace, intention, and self-compassion. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to shift your mindset from “Sunday Scaries” to “Sunday Reset” Simple rituals to recharge your mind, body, and heart Why preparation—not…

In this fun and unfiltered episode, Jay and Radhi dive into the world of “icks,” those oddly specific little turn-offs that make us cringe for reasons we can’t quite explain. From baby voices and socks with sandals to the blurry line between confidence and cockiness, they laugh their way through the most random dating deal-breakers and what they secretly reveal about us. Amid the jokes, they slip in a few truth bombs too, like how we sometimes use icks to avoid real vulnerability. It’s light, hilarious, and uncomfortably relatable, because honestly, we’ve all had an ick… and we’ve definitely been someone else’s. In this episode, you'll learn: How to Tell the Difference Between an Ick and a Red Flag How to Communicate Honestly About What Bothers You How to Recognize When You’re Using an Ick as an Excuse How to Appreciate Imperfections in the People You Love It’s easy to get caught up in small things that bother us, but true connection isn’t built on perfection, it’s built on patience, humor, and…

Who are you when the world only sees one version of you? Do you have to close one chapter to begin another? What if change isn’t a loss, but an evolution? How do you carry every version of yourself into the present? In this heartfelt and revealing episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with entrepreneur, TV host, and multi-hyphenate creative Rochelle Humes for a raw conversation about identity, motherhood, and what it really means to live a fulfilling life. Rochelle opens up about her journey from pop stardom to businesswoman, sharing how she’s navigated change, protected her peace, and stayed grounded while raising three kids in the spotlight. Together, they dive into the tension between public perception and private truth, the struggle of being misunderstood, and the courage it takes to pivot when life pulls you in a new direction. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why success often shifts from financial stability to inner peace. The challenges of balancing ambition with motherhood. How to embrace new…